Pretty in Pearls

Hey Ya'll!  If you know me, KNOW me then you probably know I am a curser...yes like a sailor (Sorry daddy, those bitter ole sisters were right all along). You also know, because you probably follow my blogs, that I try not to write using curse words let alone put one in my blog title. But sometimes there just needs to be PURE and UNFILTERED honesty and this title is how I am feeling right now. So listen, this particular title for this particular post is NECESSARY!  I started this post 3 days ago, very quickly in the notes section of my phone, with a lump of hurt in my throat and in my heart that was manifesting as anger. I had to step away from everyone for the remainder of the day because I knew if I spoke to anyone at any point it was going to be an "altercation" and not a "conversation." Ya'll! Self-awareness is so very important. Knowing yourself and your limits IS SO IMPORTANT! I know Lashonda and I know when she needs to step away. I also know ther